update
I have an update:
I found on the faa website that the ame may issue the certificate if the most recent arrest was over 5 years ago and the ame does not believe there is a substance abuse problem.
So I am hoping that the ame will be able to issue me without deferral based on my last arrest being over 5 years ago. I did experiment with drugs and alcohol when I was younger, but have been away from that lifestyle for 5 years now so I'm hoping the doctor will be able to see that (maybe I'll go to a lab for a drug/alcohol screening and bring it with me to show) and be able to issue my certificate without having to defer me resulting in a long process of seeing psychologists, etc.
Anyone with any experience with this, I would greatly appreciate your feedback/experiences!