If you washed out before wings the simplist way to approach is to treat it like your mil time doesn't count for much (because it doesn't) and take the path to build hours and a career like everyone else who starts out from the ppl position.

You already have a degree so get yourself into a commercial/cfi training program (you can pick the style) and start building hours CFIing, banner towing, pipeline etc until you get mins for a more career type job.