Hey Indyflyin,
Right On!!!
I am not the pilot, but I have tried for some of them on follow up my studies.
1 yes, the degree is just proof.
2 Try "Charter collage Aviation", One of my friends has completed his pilot training there.
6 There are proving many financial support as scholarships and many more. Which may help your parents in initial costing as well.
8 May be someone must have this as the dream.
9 Never (for all).
11 Good Luck for your future. Keep It Up!