I don't want to put words in Bobs mouth but I think he is trigger ready because of others who came onto this site before you.

They would be brand new like yourself, ask what seemed to be an honest question, and then try and jam an agenda down.

I don't think that is what you are doing and why you came here. You seem honest in your questions and I apologize for my part in attacking.

We all can definitely use more open thought and less aggression.

Welcome to APC and I hope you stay and keep providing your thought.