ya, i have gathered from everyone that because of the night flying, pilots are faces with some pretty tough weather. and that because of the cargo, some times pilots can get quite uncomfortable with what they are doing. this is something to keep in mind. but i see it this way...something that is very challenging will make you a better pilot. i mean, i have been flying Cessna 172 for about 6 years. I feel completly at home in that airframe. and on days that the weather is nice, i just jump in and go. it becomes more like driving a car, then flying an airplane. so if my resolve and flying ability were constantly challenged, i believe that my skills would skyrocket.
plus, i am single right now, and plan to keep it that way until after i am setteled in my career. i have heard from many many people, that if you are married before you start flying for the airlines, when you sign your employment contract, you might aswell sing your divorse papers. im not really sure about that, but when i am a bran new FO, i will want to concertrate on my career.