You could "tell me" all you want, if I ever fly with you, I will still happily help cross a few rows of seat belts, and still have time to do the walkaround and come back and do some DIAFRIPS all while being ready to go to add the bag and pax counts. It's really not that hard to show that you want to help and not waste time or delay your duties as a FO. Call pro standards till you are blue in the face. Yes I'm happy to be here too. If you want to PM me too, go right ahead, not going to change my attitude to help out if time allows.