Good luck on that one ......... Most divorce horror stories are such that these slimey wicked stewards of the courts will take you down at the knees once everyone knows who you work for in Shelby county ......... I have a close friend that was able to get legally separated over in Jackson , Tennessee as the Judge over there has no issues with granting separations or divorces from his court even though you live in the Memphis area ......... It's legal and done in the State of Tennessee ......... Costs much less to get it done over there too !!!