Great post!
Some key things save, save, save $$$$. Have at least a 1-yr supply of $ savings left alone in a separate account for the emergency fund. Assume 0 from any (still left?) pension plan, take advantage of 401K and matchings, and assume you will get 0 social security when you retire. Enjoy the good times right now because before you know it, the industry will be on the down side of the cycle the future - just like it always does. Self-identify as a family man (husband, father, etc) first, and a pilot second. Don't let it define you.