Sailor, what your asking for is loyalty not unity. I think the members of this union are unified for a common purpose. We may have different ideas, but wouldn't it be nice if ideas are presented for consideration that the NC hasn't thought of?
In the flight deck we encourage our F/O's to contribute. I would never say to a First Officer, "Sit there shut up and trust me I know best."
We should encourage participation. That is also how we show support. The NC and MEC is free to say Thanks, but we will try option A first.