If your married and don't want to sell your house or pull your kids out of school find a 1 leg commute with a short rsv time.
If your not married, or don't have kids or a mortgage then move.
Find a commute that will let you:
Commute on your own metal
Commute on your own airline brand
Has 5+ flights a day
Has service to the next closest airport
Is 2 hours or less gate to gate.
Will let you get to the most junior base for upgrading.
Has overnights in your town, so you can go home during a trip.
Is not competitive with other commuters.