@PilotValley: the problem with soliciting advice on an internet forum is that one doesn't know anything about the experiences and backgrounds of the people offering advice. And since the responses to your question have resulted in a range of opinions - some which may align with your instincts, some which may not - how can you decide which advice to follow? You are trying to make an important decision that will have a big impact on your finances, your family, and your options in life: thirty years from now do you want to look back and say "I followed the advice from anonymous people on a pilot forum, and look where it got me"?
In your circle of friends and acquaintances are there any people who are thoughtful, wise, and experienced? Could you discuss your ideas with them? Could they help you evaluate the advice you have received here? When they give you advice you will have context that will allow you to gage its relevancy and value. Anonymous internet advice lacks that context, and therefore might not be appropriate for you.
I hope you find college and an aviation career satisfying. Both have been very rewarding for me, and I hope the same will be true for you, too.