It is sad how many guys I know, some without degrees of their own, who end up paying for their wife's education loans because the wife has stopped working after marriage. Why did they get those expensive degrees in the first place? My wife has been a stay at home mom for 12 years so I have no problem with stay at home mom's (if she stays home another couple years I might but that's another story).

Do you guys have kids? If not, then there is NO reason she can't work