OK, so the op took a job with horrible pay, terrible health benefits, and 0 chances of improvement. This crap is all known, and made very aware to all the tard sticks that think Mesa will get them to the promise land quick. His wife is the real irresponsible one here, she allowed herself to be with someone that is Willing to have a bunch of kids, and take a job at McDonald's.
In the end though, I have a feeling this post is an attempt by a failed division of alpa which is a failed assoc. in itself, to start conversation about how bad it is at mesa.
This career isn't like welfare, you don't get more money for more kids. Damn, even people trying to make a living off welfare make better decisions then mesa newhires.