Thanks again all.

Just to clarify: I'm very proud of our piloty positions, just a little self-conscious.
My old job I wore my flight suit (flag and patches and crap) into a coffee shop a couple times - was hard to relax and it kind of stressed me out.

At least the airline regalia fits in a crowd, as long as it's subdued. That's what I'm aiming for.
I'm just here to fly.