1. Either your fiancée is in for the long haul or she isn't. Figure that out first.
2. Commuting isn't fun.
3. Go to Envoy. Flow program. If it works you made the right decision. If the flow program doesn't work it's just like going to a carrier without a flow program. Given it's current success it's the right career move.
4. Read #1 and #2 again.