Your instructor needs to go, find another one buddy. Do not fret, you'll get through it.

The thing that always got me through my training, and what i would always tell my students when i was a CFI was to think about the end, and the means will be come much more clear.

Becoming a professional aviator is not an easy task. Always keep your chin up because there WILL be times where you feel as if this isn't for you. But if you want it to be, then it can be.

At 10 hours, you should be more concentrated on basic aircraft control, radio calls, and procedures for recovery from stalls. Do not worry about your solo, it'll happen when it happens. I solo'd 3 months after i started training, which was behind EVERYONE in my class who started in Sep. I finished before all but 3 of them, and was the 1st hired to a regional airline. It is NOT a race, although some of your peers will make you feel that way.

Blue skies and light wind my friend..and don't forget to get rid of that instructor, you'll be AMAZED at how much of a difference a comfortable cockpit environment can make on your learnings