Whatever you do don't do it because of a girlfriend. I've known a few folks who gave up a dream over a girl, and then found a few years later that women don't always last, and then regretted changing the course of their life for someone else.
Not a wife, no kids involved, you be you and see if she wants to join in. If she doesn't, I see a divorce in your future, because that will never change.
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