Don't listen to that garbage of keeping your first wife, either. Its well worth it to dump her and pay her to leave if she is making you miserable. It probably cost more to keep her then pay for her to leave.

So my rule of thumb is, try to have a great marriage. If you have done your best to create that union and its not working; sever the tie and NEVER MARRY AGAIN! In my opinion, marrying the 2nd time and beyond is disaster.

TEN

Ps. I am still married