Toilet if you wouldn't let your family fly with them you need to go to the FAA and report this as a safety issue. Your family is no more special than the general public. To make a claim like you are doing is bogus. It's a dis-service to the Captain taking on this responsibility, the ground school instructors, the sim instructors, the Line check airman the training department as a whole are preparing these street captains to be safe. If you feel all these people won't do a good enough job, YOU need to go to the FAA and report it, until you do you are a hypocrite, PERIOD.
There is no grey line it's black and white, go to the FAA, suggest how to make this safer. (example the UNION is preparing a mentor program for all new hires [don't rip on this one to, it's not a union lovefest, it's about fostering safety] Be part of the solution if you don't like what's going on.