So I guess If I want to spend more time home and have better QOL I should then go with RAH and If I want to upgrade quicker, drive for 1.5 hr to work., have 11-12 days off and flow in back pocket then I should go with PDT.

I am leaning toward rah and being close to base/1-2 day trips/14-17 days off. Can probably have another gig in this case and be home a lot more.