Every relationship, to include spouses jobs, with have pluses and minuses. Figure out how to make the negatives more acceptable and enjoy the positives.
Coworkers have been married to executives or big time lawyers. How do you think that works? It's worse than being married a pilot. Theythocislly fly every weekend, when mom is off, and have the week days off while mom is in the office or traveling.
You'll make enough money to afford hiring a house cleaning service and perhaps au pairs. Personally I'd recommend hiring two, and Sweden would be my first choice. ;-)