more advice
I married my long time girlfriend after being at the airlines for 2 years (we had dated for 8 as I wanted to be sure she could cope with the life style). I have a few friends that married other pilots, one set of professional and no kids, the second set want kids so he gave up full time flying and is working at FAA and University to be home as she was picked up at Delta. I see more FA to pilot second marriages, probably because they understand the industry.
I agree mostly with one of the previous member's statemenet in that marrying a teacher or nurse seems to work out best, they know how to take care of us babies, yet also tell us what to do when we need it.