It's been a few years ago ... UAL east coast base ... Pilot and married/engaged (I forget which) flight attendant got together on a layover and had a good time. After getting home the F/A started feeling guilty and confessed the infidelity to the significant other but described it as rape. Pilot was called into the CP office and pilot admitted that they got together and all had a good time. F/A finally confessed that it was consensual and was trying to mitigate the encounter with the significant other. This pilot was fortunate.

Rape is bad and lies can be just as bad.