There are a lot of things that can make this job easier or harder on a family. Commuting to reserve... bad
Commuting... takes time away from family
Living in base ... goood
Getting seniority and getting weekends off... good
Having seniority and being able to do locals with weekends off (locals are one day trips) ... it’s really good
My wife actually likes when I am bidding reserve at home because I am at home most of the time.
My wife decided to Home school the children so my days off are even more involved with the family. Your mileage may vary.