Living in base is a freaking dream. I get paid to sit at home and do nothing. Enjoying a family BBQ right now as we speak. Get called for a turn or overnight? I actually welcome it. I totally understand the complaints about commuting though.
My 2 cents is, move in base or deal with the RSV rules. No one forced you to come to the airline, nor to choose to commute every week.
I know the "you can't say that, company is trying to screw us, you're just new and ignorant" will come out. I've been here coming up on a year and every day this job gets easier and I couldn't be happier. Easiest job I've ever had by a MILE