Originally Posted by
JulesWinfield
Why on Earth would you want to prevent people from coming in underneath you?
My guess is the OP is used to playing the victim card most of his/her life and it makes him/her feel better to constantly complain regardless if his/her situation changes for the better.
As Alfred said, “Some people just want to watch the world burn.” I think there’s no satisfying the OPs gripes. He/she is convinced they are right and without fault.