Originally Posted by Duffman

As far as avoiding women in general, that just sounds awful. Just find someone who is financially stable, get a prenup and be very leery of someone who finds a prenup "insulting," and date for a long time before getting married. It's easy to keep up an act for a year or two, but longer than that and you'll really see who they are. Marriage is either a lifetime or half your stuff, so what's the rush? You can wait a couple years