I'm in the same boat as you, Sunshine. I am in the great position that allows me to get out in 6 months if I want and it's tough. I've pretty much decided that I can't put up with all the BS any more. Every week there seems to be one more nail in the retention coffin. Not only do I barely do my primary job of flying any more, but I am expected to do eveyone else's too. I'm now a finance guy, a personnelist, a computer guy, a loggy. Next they are going to expect me to fix my own jet when it's broken. No thanks. I am using the next few months to get my ATP, renew some connections with those who already jumpped, and find a job.
I agree with others about cutting the ord from the AF. That I think is the hardest thing of all, but we all have to some time.
Good luck with that decision. I'll see you out there.