Originally Posted by
atpcliff
Are you YOU?
Or, are you your JOB?
Not to answer for that guy, but I am me. Not my job. However, without a job I cannot feed myself or my family. I will cease to exist if I do not rectify that in a timely manner. So I need a job. My family needs me to have a job so they can eat too.
Now if the wife develops a bad attitude and presents an ultimatum, than said pilot is in a bind. Sacrifice current job (and personal dreams) for wife or ditch the b**** and maintain ones self. Here is the kicker: sacrife FOR the wife and still there is a high probability that she will divorce you anyway. Why? Because the job really isn’t the issue.
So be smart and protect yourself. If your wife really is vested in you than she will stick by you untill the end (death do us part). If she won’t stick by you than I guess your marriage vows weren’t worth the toilet paper a trucker utilized a bit ago.