For me, commuting is a perk of the job. Not many professions allow you to live wherever you want. Let me add a disclaimer; I'm just a regional guy who has only been doing this for a few years.

However, I have a very easy commute- I live in southern Connecticut and commute to PHL. Im within an hour drive to an airport that has 5-6 flights per day (depending on the time of year) and another small airport with 3 flights per day. 4 ish hour drive and there is also the option of taking the train for ~$100. On average I spend an extra night in PHL probably once every three months.

However, I personally would not commute any further than I do now. Having friends with two leg commutes, or having to do lots of "offline" commuting (meaning jumpseating on a different carrier), it doesnt seem worth it.

I primarily chose which airlines to apply, and ultimately work for based on what domiciles were available and within reach seniority wise. Many friends and mentors warned that a commute would be hard. I figured I would try it and then decide if I wanted to move to my base. My specific commute is pretty easy, and it allows me to live near my family which is ultimately more important to me.

I wish you the best of luck in your decision!