Nope. You are correct. She does it out of spite, and to me that’s despicable. In no way am I defending the cheater, but the spiteful spouse who takes it upon themselves to dole out “advice” to random people on the internet is ALSO a horrible person. The cheating husband is wrecking ONE family. The social media queen takes part in the ruin of MANY families, indirectly. People should mind their own business, and not make the mistake of thinking all situations are the same. Plenty of marriages survive infidelity. Some are even better AFTER a lot of repair work is done. Many times kids are involved. The person I’m speaking of makes DAILY comments to women telling them how to financially destroy their husbands and wreck their careers, if possible. Yet......she stays with her own cheating husband. I guess that widebody pay is just too much to part with, but it’s ok to suggest it to other women.