Perhaps if you'd post less nonsensically, we'd not have to determine what was believable and what was jusy blather?

Just be real with your advice to others, as in the advice YOU'D want to receive if making a major life decision. (Or don't post at all, if you have nothing of value to add). Not everyone who comes to this forum for real advice knows to ignore you like others of us.

Many people do use these forums for info and advice, something that used to be easier to come by.