It’s not for everyone.
Nationally 70% don’t finish PPL training for a myriad of reasons.
Ask yourself why you failed the rides you did.
A stagecheck failure under 141 doesn’t count by the way.
In any case finish your instrument rating as it is a life saver.
Take a couple year break and just maintain some level of proficiency.
See if aviation keeps creeping back in your thoughts or not.
You’ll know the answer then.