Can someone post the status quo section of the RLA?
There's much to be leary of, and a history of litigation. None of it (that I know of) involved an individual making an individual choice about what to fly.
Now, influencing others, applying pressure, changing behavior en masse...yup, that's going to attract negative attention. But if someone thinks their backpack got too heavy and their family hated how much they were gone in the summer of 2019... they're free to do something different next year. And they don't even have to keep it a secret.
If you want to see what departure from status quo looks like... and read an apology letter about that very behavior... read the latest "sorry about this summer" letter, addressed to the entire seniority list directly from management. I'm not sure they're itching for a status quo debate in the current climate.
But that's just me. You do you.