All the other advice is spot on.
I will mention something important.
You are within driving distance of one of our two very large AND very junior coastal hubs. EWR and SFO have massive opportunity for advancement and if you can make living near one or the other work, you will have a great career. You will get to choose whether to be SR on the 737/320 or move up quickly and fly something bigger. You will get better days off and more desirable flying faster as well. This translates into better QOL and pay and time with family.
To put it into perspective, many people who have nothing waiting for them in NY or CA move to within driving distance of SFO and EWR just for the career implications.
Good luck on your decision.