simpleton analogy.....if my son got accepted into Embry Riddle on a full scholarship, and Harvard medical school on a full scholarship, and he loved flying but also loved medicine/science/etc, I would steer him to Harvard.

you know what a heart surgeon does when he doesn't like the way a certain hospital "treats him" ?

he walks across town, gets a sign-on bonus at Hospital-B, and does not miss a beat.