Very Thai on N. Fuzshing Rd has GREAT Thai Food!.
Carnegies on AnHe Rd. is a "Hard Rock-Style" Bar; chicks dance on the bar, etc. Very friendly towards ex-pats and if you tell them you are an airline crew, they wave the cover charge. Gets going late; after 10pm. And I think, Wed. or Thurs. is ladies night (check with your concierge)
Combat Zone, Malibu West is a good Western bar and all of the juicy bars are around there.
Brown Sugar on SongRen Rd. is a good live music venue; salsa, jazz or blues. Slightly expensive and not much mingling, but great bands.