$60,000 tuition without a scholarship is a choice, just like all the worthless degrees you millennials like to get. There are many fine collages, especially if you take in state tuition, that you can attend that won't cost you an arm and a leg. But that would be too "obvious" so you go the more obscure unnecessary/expensive route because you want to be "different". Then you complain when you are still living with mom at 26 and blame it on participation trophies or whatever because it is never your fault. You'll get over the grammar, it is an internet message board dude chill out. Plus when somebody brings it up it is the first sign they know they lost an argument.