The most ideal would be living near your reserve job and your full time job, but unfortunately, it doesn't look like you have that option. You may find yourself very busy for a while on reserve with a regional having to commute and use a crash pad. Lots of your free time may be spent commuting. Not ideal, but that's life in the airlines. Like everyone else has said, you'll make more money flying with the military, so you'll want to be close by in case they call you last minute to fill a tasking.