Try and avoid the fish out there, most of them have mercury in them and will make you crazy if you ingest them.
You can fly both in the military and airlines, in either the ANG or AFRC. Talk to people at units you are intersted in regarding the airline and the unit to see the level of difficulty. Each aircraft has its own level of pain, either through deployments or training requirements that mandate extra training.
Most ANG or AFRC units would be glad to hire a person that is capable of achiving Sigma Cum Laude. You need to understand that both ANG and AFRC will have to commit big $$ to send you to pilot training and the most important thing they will be looking at is what the return on their investment will be. If you look to be a person that is going to give them mimimum particiaption, because of your other career choices, you will not be as desireable as someone, that might be a Maga Cum Laude that wants to be fully involved in the unit mission.
Bottom line is that you are well qualified, and need to make sure any unit knows you are planning on supporting the unit's mission completely.
Good luck...