Originally Posted by
Pogey Bait
Why do you say that, don’t beat yourself up. I would say no divorce is caused by any one person. I mean say you cheated on her, so what? She at some point made decisions that caused you to cheat. Nobody wakes up in the morning and says, today is the day I am going to screw someone else.
Yeah, I shouldered all the blame myself for my marriage failing. I had tons of guilt about failing my kids and marriage. After LOTS of therapy I finally figured out there was plenty of blame to go around. It's never just one parties fault. I was in a much better place after realizing that fact.