Originally Posted by NuGuy

This. Happiest couple I know just had their third child, never married. Their life together “just happened and we went with it” (their words). They just bee bop through life to their own tune, and their kids are the best adjusted I’ve ever seen.

They only have one rule, and that’s “to leave that judge outside”. They’ve ejected nosy and judgmental relatives for pushing anything on them, and from what I’ve seen they are serious about it. They tell me “friends/relatives get one warning”.

After a particularly judgmental Aunt got the boot, everyone else got the message.

Probably a good lesson for all of us in there.