You guys forget that the hotels DO NOT like flight crews as guests, especially FA’s. Since the hotels housing crews are doing it for the cheapest, they treat us as such since they know we’re probably not going to stay elsewhere.
This has been my experience with the van drivers as well. They could care less about us. I always can hear them whispering under their breath about us. They make fun of us while driving to the hotel. It’s subtle, but I can see it.