Originally Posted by
FTv3
I’d argue the more important considerations would be where the better school systems are and which is a better place to raise kids. You get what you pay for. Tax free (or low) states don’t always mean you keep more $$.
The other consideration is how much of your time should be spent with your kids vice someone else raising them for you. I’d take a lesser school system if it meant I could be actively involved over a great one that resulted in my losing that involvement to commuting. Lots of pros and cons to consider when talking about a move and commuting versus living in domicile. Generally speaking, your kids want all of your time and begrudge all of your absences.