No way in hell I’d commute to reserve to be in charge. I had to start over late in the game but I thoroughly take advantage of my right seat responsibilities or more accurately the lack of.
“Parking checklist complete, nice flying with you” Driving home before the plane is empty.
“What’s the problem with boarding? Oh, I’m going to shop for boat parts. LMK when you’re ready to push”
”getting food and going for a walk. Will make push”
Already did the captain thing.