I think that’s what the whole thread is about… how to maximize QOL and time at home to make a marriage and family life enjoyable.

if you’re both doing 1 and 2 days it wouldn’t be that different than many other high paying jobs (which often require travel or very long hours).

I personally couldn’t imagine being away from my kids 4 days in a row every week, so I very much sympathize the the OP’s concerns