Only a couple capts I’ve flown with have been abrasive, but not ‘pro standards call’ worthy… otherwise, I’d say most are rockstars. Some less capable, some less personal, but an overwhelming majority are really solid humans and pilots. I appreciate the occasional grumpy captain that doesn’t want to converse; save me having to tell my story again…
I think too many FOs get emotional with the job… your cohort is being an ass, don’t take it personally…
Now watch, my next Left-seat’r is going to be a real peach.