Just Ask..
The guy that I am flying with now wanted a 15/13 schedule, but it took him a couple of rotations to get it because there must be someone opposite you on the other schedule. I am on the 15/13 and would never go back to the 8/6, but then I don’t have any toddlers around.
You pretty much just ask for what you want, and you will probably get it within a few rotations.