yes, stay single. i got married and then decided to pursue my career in flying because I was having too much fun as a bachelor to stay focused on flying. She got pregnant and my training slowed down. the baby was born and it was really hard to get any time or extra money to train. the baby turned into a toddler and she went back to work, we had more time and money with 2 incomes so I ramped up my training again.... and whalla, pregnant again... with twins. i trained every chance I could (which was about once every 2 weeks), now the babies are here and I don't have enough time to shower anymore, or enough money to buy ramen noodles.. bye bye career. Once again... stay single. or atleast if you decide to get serious with somebody, DONT HAVE KIDS!!!!