I let most of it go. Try to get them to relax. After that. Let them play CA. Sometimes I’ll mess with them and do or say things on purpose. I just sit and chuckle.

I was a 12 yr fo by choice for an extra two years. I did my job as an FO, backed up the CA and only spoke up if it would damage metal or cause paper work or they asked. Made being FO pretty much stress free. Generally I got along with most CAs even those on the list. I hear the names on it now and I am surprised at some. A bud and I have an FO list and it’s getting a little long. I only had 1 CA on mine. They told in new hire to add her.

Some just need to run the jet. It’s not who’d you’d expect either. I’ve told two that could upgrade that they should. Both of them will be on Wazapp within weeks.